Takes itself way too seriously

Absolutely the worst movie.

All of these films share one commonality, that being a kind of emotional center that humanizes a cast of monsters.

The film's masterful storytelling did its job. The message was clear. No need to overdo.

I've seen plenty of big budget and blockbuster movies, intricate plots, and success in the big-time. REFUGE is none of these. It shows dirt poor and small ambition people making life better between themselves. As a writer and someone who likes seeing honest character portrayals, i give it 9 stars. It's too bad movies like this don't get a wide theater release. With a theme like this, it was probably too difficult finding a buyer, or getting Hollywood interested in this.I like the way these young people found a way to happiness by coming to terms with their own problems, and that they realized they could help each other by being together. It's such a simple lesson, well written and delivered by the actors. I have more respect for characters created like these, than those caught up in the twists and turns of how to get rich.

Refuge is Jessica Goldberg's debut vehicle as a movie director. Since she also wrote the screenplay and a play from which it is derived, this is a signature work for her. The story seems to develop unevenly, at least on first viewing. Again and again, Goldberg misses opportunities to spike up the emotional reactions of the audience. Where countless other romantic movies catch our attention by buffing the usual into the unusual, Refuge does not. As a result, it may seem a bit flat to those accustomed to modern TV, cinema and advertising. We come to scenes where a character could demonstrate some great nobility, but a lesser act occurs. This may reduce the adrenaline/endorphin hit we might have received, but it illustrates Goldberg's key point: ordinary people can rise above circumstance and do extraordinary things. Viewers who will adjust themselves to this more natural rhythm may be reminded that no cape and spandex are required to elevate human experience. Refuge is evocative of the better works of some foreign directors of years gone by. Eisenstein moved us with fixed-camera moving tableaux that revealed simple beauty. Goldberg accomplished the same thing with a dilapidated house, character development and storyline. Julie Delpy's rambling tours of Paris provided her lean framework for the rambling lives of her characters. Goldberg's house framed the simple, stark realities of the characters of Refuge. Like the words to a great blues song, Refuge brings us down into the barren recesses of existence. The music of the blues gives us a way to rise above, and the storyline and details of Refuge do the same. In scene after scene, we find a neatness and pleasing balance to small items in the house that suggest a transcendence of life's challenges. A shot of a table and a few mismatched chairs encourage us to step into the scene and sit down, confident that we will find warmth and security there. It is not so much that the house itself is a refuge, but that the heart of Amy, the female lead, is creating one for us.In a scene outside a Doctor's office, Sam, our cigarette-smoking leading man idly tries to repair a dented piece of siding. In another, he grabs up a couple of branches that have fallen in the yard. With these simple gestures, we see our tendency to improve what is around us. All four of the key characters are deeply flawed and irritating at times. Yet as the story progresses, we become attached to them. Anyone wishing to rediscover the power of the human spirit, particularly on its feminine side, would do well to seek out this movie.

This is an unusual drama. A family is living a marginal life being the rejects of town, kids that should never have been born from druggie parents who abandon them before the film. The oldest daughter before the film has given up her escape, spent one year in college, to take care of her brain damaged brother and much younger sister. They think the world of her. The town considers her a slut. She picks up a drifter bum. Both are damaged people who do not give a lot of themselves. In the end she marries him giving up her dreams of getting out but having help from a man she loves in raising the family and he finds a place where he is needed and appreciated. They do not become middle class and he does not stop drinking and the younger sister does not stop being a druggie. It is just a slice of life and it is hard to see this as unrealistic or a fairy tale. It seems kind of gritty. I thought the directing was fine and the acting was good. It was a bit more real than I wanted.

So here's your totally average guy looses his job, gets in his truck, drives off to life in a new town. Walks into a joint (sportin a 4-day stubble), and presto-pronto hooks up with a totally unattached-available (but GTBW everyone), lovely-as-ever 'Krysten Alyce Ritter'.. binged.it/1tSopmT .. She immediately takes him home, rips his clothes off and 'sleeps' with him. Then two days later, he asks to move in with her, and in an eye-blink she agrees... talk about finding 'refuge.' It's a romanticized, sweet story, with a very decent cast. A majority of viewers will be finding it unlikely to say many negative things.. although the story, without too much argument, would have to be considered quite a bit more than fairytale unbelievable.